okay this is kind of a vague or strange question.. but..me and my guy have an ac-dc conjunction and on our axis we have all of the following planets:
chiron-moon-venus-neptune-saturn-uranus-ceres
we also have several very strong trines which are all exact or almost exact, and we have mars-mars opposition.
so basically i feel that a theme for us is in being on the one hand very similar and compatible and on the other, *very* different and the energy between us matches this. we flow so well together but sometimes there is this sense that we are aliens and we are totally on opposite sides of the spectrum, but somehow we always magically end up understanding eachother somehow and then it is back to flowing. but what i am saying is *definitely* feel the oppositions at work, and it is so interesting!
we also have a lot of chiron aspects, so perhaps this helps in us understanding eachother (and with the sometimes initial misunderstandings too).
so my question is. he is a cancer and i am aquarius and we *both* have moon opposite uranus natally. and i am wondering, is it too big a leap to think that this somehow prepared us for, or brings us to somehow understand eachother better? i mean, the planets are energy and this denotes a pattern we have both struggled with all our lives, so in this way it doesn't seem to be a stretch to think it could actually be bonding for us? and it would seem to fit with all of our oppositions, too, you know?
and further.. i am wondering if somehow we steady that aspect for one another given we embody the dynamics in a sense, *to* one another? or is that too far out? i just find we tend to always soothe one another in these very awesome and subtle ways and i can't help wondering if it has to do with the fact that each of us is used to uranus not letting our moons feel stable, but in eachother we recognize the same needs and fears and therefore are somehow able to instinctively soothe it?
am i making any sense? is this possible? is it called anything? i feel like i'm always jumping around in my abstract ways when i see patterns and i don't know if that is quite the direction i should take these observations..? any thoughts?